Parenting has always confounded young parents. It has become even more complicated today, with 100 different experts speaking 100 different languages with equal emphasis and equally impressive scientific proof. Every expert (and every mother of 2 lays a claim to that title) has his/her own theory to make the children behave and succeed in life. Right from 'Total Hands-Off approach' to 'Tiger Mom's Ruthless Supervision*' there are more shades of grey than you would find in a 64 million colour palette.
So where does the answer lie? -- Definitely somewhere, in between the Western system of 'Total Freedom' & Chinese 'system of Total control'. Because in parenting, there is no place for extremes and extremists. Thus, I believe 'THE MIDDLE OF THE ROAD' is the way out of this predicament.
The important thing is that - Discipline will not only have to be enforced but cherished, as a concept. Whereas, Pampering and Harshness would have to be given a wide berth and left alone.
Dr. VAID is an Allopathic Doctor specializing in Pediatrics. By affection he has delved into 'Educational Psychology' and has made more than 100 presentations on 'Success' as a Motivational Speaker, sponsored by leading national newspapers like "Times of India" & "Hindustan Times". These talks have already been conceptualized into TV Talk Show serials for National network (DD-1) and Zee TV and have also been converted into books and Audio Books. His critically acclaimed book, "Learn to slap your child" raised a lot of queries that parents wanted answered, specifically. The commonest being 'Why does my child misbehave?' and 'What can I do about it?"
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