I Love You and so (Addiction to the four letter word)

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This book is not just a self-help book.

It’s a simple reminder that you need to fall in love with yourself all over again and invites you on that journey of getting bits of yourself back in You!

It aims to push you to rediscover the sheer energy of happiness and joy in the reality of the Now!

It doesn’t have to be somebody’s reality ad it doesn’t have to be a distant flight of fantasy.

It can be yours now, if you are willing to Ask and Receive…and Choose!

Above all, it invites you to ask that all important question: What would you to be truly happy with, that if you asked and received it, would open the doors of richer possibilities for you to choose?

Would you be willing to go beyond the limitations of your thoughts, feelings and emotions?”

Patriccia Balan was born in Guwahati, Assam, India, studied in Bangalore and has been living in Dubai for 24 years now. Born to a Tamil Brahmin Family, and given a Christian name like Patriccia she spent most of her life with mixed perceptions and identities. Having lived in India till the completion of University, a nation that is caught up with identity and what you are based on the religion you belong to was pretty challenging. She often faced an identity crises, having to explain as to how she happens to have a Christian name while being a Tam Bram. And her explanation was hardly convincing. To add to it having her date of birth incorrect in her documents and not having a birth certificate to prove the correct birth and date, made her always feel that she was living a big lie. She lived in conflict of who and what she really was since the time of her birth. Talk about wrong positioning from the very beginning.

Moving forward, Patriccia worked in the Corporate Advertising Industry in Dubai for over 17 years and was a successful advertising executive. She now runs a successful production company based in Dubai. Her journey in life introduced her to the Energy transformation world. For she always knew there was a different possibility that was available. During her two years of sabbatical, her search started with reading a lot of books, learning different healing methodologies primarily to heal her life, a desire to wake up every morning being joyful, not wanting to make her wrong or to make her past more relevant than the present and the future. She came upon Access Consciousness" at a point where she had to get pragmatic and get back to work. Her journey with Access Consciousness" gave her the true sense of empowerment which she so desired. Five days of change class, which includes The Bars", and The Foundation class" changed everything for her. Having experienced those changes and using the tools to create more invited her to look at the possibility of becoming a Certified Facilitator to assist others who were choosing greater and willing to choose beyond limitations.

Today, Patriccia Balan is a successful International Certified Facilitator with Access Consciousness. She facilitates core classes, one on one sessions and travels to various parts of the world to facilitate more awareness. Patriccia Balan has worked with children from schools in India and the United Arab Emirates and also facilitates 'awareness' talks.

Her hobbies include dancing Bharathnatiyam, a classical Indian dance form, swimming and out creating each day.

What brings Patriccia Balan most joy is to use her journey, her experience in life and how she has changed every limitation to a possibility with the seeking world.

She enjoys a great admiration with the people who know her and have worked with her. Her target is to be the invitation to inspire others to choose greater.

I love you and so 'got created firstly as I have very interesting points of view about the four letter word 'love'. I have either used it very extensively, especially in relationships, and found myself completely caught up in having said 'I love you', or have taken others who have said these words very-seriously, coming to conclusions more often than not the four letter word was far too sacred.

It kept me distracted from what IS and creating and having the life I knew was possible for me.

I am not limiting this emotion to relationships with the other sex alone. It applies to all relationships we experience where often we find ourselves in a tangle or a sense of lack.

There have been times when one genuinely meant it and as I concluded that this thing called love wasn't working for me, I avoided it. At one point, I believed that being out of love suited me better than being in it as is commonly perceived. Especially when someone rejects one they conclude they are in love with while the latter is probably fallen out of love.

After several such experiences, I came to detest the word 'love'. Anytime this was said to me by anyone, not necessarily the other sex alone, even friends or siblings, I realised that it did not have to mean the same to everyone.

Today, I am grateful for this awareness, choosing to know more, have more and be more, not having to make me wrong for all the experiences I have had, all the contributors to these experiences and most of all to Gary Douglas, the founder of Access Consciousness", Dr. Dain Heer, co-creator, and Shannon O'Hara, founder of Talk to the Entities.

I am in deep gratitude for the pragmatic tools from Access Consciousness" as it has changed my life and continues to invite me each day to a greater way of being.

Happiness is a choice I make every day as I choose to not be the effect of my external circumstances or the choices others make. I get to acknowledge that I have choice in every area of my life. A lot of my perspectives is immensely influenced by the awareness and information I have received from Access Consciousness", Somewhere in the crevices of my being, I always knew there had to be a different possibility. A different way of functioning, having that true sense of joy for simply being me on this beautiful planet of ours.

I would like to highlight that my intention is not to make the emotion 'love' a wrongness, not in the least. Rather, I aim to bring the awareness that the act of' loving' with gratitude, kindness and allowance is far greater as it does not require any judgment of self or the other. It eradicates the need of expectations and allows us to gift and receive freely from a space of awareness rather than need} desperation} want} desire and conclusion.

What if all our choices are based on a question that gave us the awareness of what would create more, rather than conclusions or answers that always shut doors on the abundant possibilities that can be made available for us to choose, if only we were willing to Ask. A simple question such as, if I choose this what will this create for now and the future for the other and me? Would we then get to have the ease, peace, joy and possibility we all seek and desire to have in our lives?